Yeah man, there will be crying whether we are talking about sleep training for behavior training.

It is a normal human reaction to things not going your baby or child's way. And best of all, it is temporary.

But there will also be EVERYTHING you need to truly understand:

• The science behind crying
• What to do or not do while they are crying
• How long the crying will last under the different sleep methods
• When and why to switch from one method to another 
• When and how to go in and check on your baby
• THE ABSOLUTE ASSURANCE that your baby is safe and loved and this is a temporary phase, not the new normal.
• How to manage the tears for kids in situations unrelated to sleep training. 
• How to teach your child about coping with big feelings

1- Falling asleep independently 

2- Getting BACK to sleep independently if awoken too early

3- Age appropriate length of night sleep (IE: under 12 months most babies sleep 11.5-12 hours each night.)

4- Behavioral protesting is limited to less than 10 minutes before sleep and is characterized as "normal crying" at worst. Most babies do not cry at all once they are sleep trained.Most coo or fuss though. And some still cry minimally and without intensity as a self-soothing mechanism. 

They do! For some. And that's wonderful for them. I am here for the parents who tried and didn't get the outcome they imagined with gentle methods. If it works for you, keep going! If it doesn't, then I am here to help and reassure you that you are NOT a bad parent for considering other methods. 

I am a democrat, who firmly stood against trump. It has nothing to do with parent coaching AT ALL. But I understand many of you want to know you are supporting a business that reflects your values. Consistent evidence of where I stand is found in my IG, not performative posts as we have seen elsewhere. #BLM #LGBTQ #METOO #SCIENCEISREAL #BIDENHARRIS All of it.

That is where I stand. You will NOT be turned away if you hold different beliefs. I am stating this for those who care about these values when hiring somebody. 

Over 21 years and 1000+ families, I have a success rate of 94% for sleep and behavior training. That means two things: 

1- I am not a jerk lying about success. Those who tell you they have a 100% success rate are lying, and that is gross. Yuck! You don't want to work with that person. 

2- Not all babies get this. But nearly all of them do. Those who do not get the hang of this are so few and far between and they happen for mostly avoidable reasons. The biggest reason this won't work is if you are not following directions consistently. Other reasons are medical issues preventing behavior-shaping methods from working, such as sleep apnea, ADHD, ASD, SPD etc. 

You will receive a confirmation email immediately after purchase with the login info to access the program + the link into the private group for just parents in the 3-month program! If for any reason you can't find this email, no need to worry :) Please check spam first and if you still don't see it, simply email our team at [email protected] and we'll take care of you right away!

1- Tantrums and whining are significantly scaled back in both frequency of occurrence as well as length and intensity.

2- Child doesn't argue when told no, about 80-90% of the time. They accept the no and move on. 

3- Child uses new coping skills we will teach them when they are feeling upset instead of getting aggressive or loud. 

4- Child follows directions and listens rather than talking back or being rude 80% (or more) of the time. Some pushback is normal no matter what. 

5- Child eats what is offered without making a huge deal.

6- Parents feel in control again 

7- Children know what is expected of them and behave accordingly more often than not. Including morning routines, evening routines, meals and outings. 

SLEEP TRAINING FOR NIGHTS: Sleeping through the night takes about 3-5 nights on average. Some babies get it sooner and others take up to 9 nights to smooth out.

NAP TRAINING: Getting naps sorted out with independent sleep without behavioral protesting happening takes up to 30 days. 

BEHAVIOR TRAINING: You will see improvement within the first 3 days of implementing new tools. But there will be healthy, normal pushback through the process as we are making progress. Adding a timeline for when behavior training is complete is impossible, we are always working on something specific. You will see changes within days and behavior will continue to improve dramatically over the next weeks as we work together. 

REFUND POLICY FOR THE NO BS SLEEP TRAINING COURSE: 

I have no way of knowing if you are watching the videos in order and implementing with consistency, which is what is required to succeed. I can offer the following: 

I am not a jerk and I get it that you spent money. I cannot offer a refund because you were upset that your baby cried. If that is your complaint, you clearly didn't read anything on my website/Instagram/FB group or in my course.🙄 However, I can offer you 50% refund if you were consistent for 30 days, followed directions and your baby or child still isn't getting it. I cannot offer a full refund though.

REFUND POLICY FOR ANY PRIVATE COACHING:

Private coaching is more expensive because it is MUCH more of my time and attention as we are working closely to resolve your child's sleep or behavior dilemma. If after 30 days (for sleep) or 45 days (for behavior), you have seen no improvement, I will offer you a 40% refund as well as free coaching until your problem is resolved.

Just email me and I will process the appropriate partial refund. [email protected]

I can tell you that in 21 years, with over 1000 families, I have given 4 refunds. So they are not common and you are NOT likely to need one. Instead, you are likely to end up with a child who's sleep and/or behavior is MUCH improved or totally fixed!

Yeah, you did. I am basically Mary Poppins when kids are within earshot. But when it's just us grown-ups, I am like Mary Poppins if she said fuck from time to time. Just, be mindful that when you watch my videos it will occasionally slip out and you should watch with headphones in, or after bedtime.