Well, 94% of my families succeed with my method. If you are not in that group, there are 3 things you need to know: 

1- I HATE when my customers don't succeed. It kills me on the inside. But because this is a self-guided course: A- I have no way of knowing if you watched everything in order and implemented as directed. And B- There are too many students in this course to offer each of you personal coaching. So...

2- I would ask that we jump on a quick (free) call to go over what you have done so I can be sure there isn't something obvious missed that you should implement before throwing in the towel.

3- If it seems like you followed directions and your child/baby just isn't sleeping through the night 10-12 hours after 30 days of consistency, then I will offer a 75% refund. 

Yep. They will cry and you will have ALL of the information you need to understand what science actually tells us about crying. But as I explained in the free sleep class, it absolutely is not harmful for your baby or child to cry. If you want a no-cry sleep option, I would suggest not sleep training and co-sleeping until they go off to college.🤷‍♀️ 

CRYING 👏 ISN'T 👏 HARMFUL👏 More about this in the 2nd bonus!

If you want to work with me privately, there are three options. And 2 of them are DEEPLY discounted when you get to the checkout page for my No BS Sleep Training Course, so take advantage of that discount when you get to the checkout page. The third one is explained on my main website, www.ParentingMadeJoyful.com

NIGHTS: Average is 3-5 nights, some babies take longer (I have seen the occasional tricky baby take up to 30 days for nights but that is SO not the norm). And some babies get it faster, but that is also not the norm. 

NAPS: Average for nap training results is 30 days. Again, some get it sooner, but that is not the norm, and others take longer, like 4-8 weeks. But that is also not the norm. 

NIGHTS: Sleeping 10-12 hours a night (depending on the age). Falling asleep independently at bedtime, without needing to eat to fall back asleep or needing any kind of intervention from an adult in order to fall back asleep. Wake-ups are under 15 minutes and are either calm or minimal fussing/light crying to self-soothe before independently sleeping again.

NAPS: Falling asleep independently for naps, putting together sleep cycles for a longer nap without needing a grown-up to go help them. Getting the amount of sleep and number of naps that is right for their body at this age/stage. 

NIGHTS and NAPS: Getting out of sleep debt in general.

Your baby does not NEED to be nursed or fed in order to sleep. They have a strong *preference* for that. But sleep training with me will teach them that they don't need to eat in order to fall asleep. I know it SEEMS impossible. It is not. If it were impossible, I would have to figure out a real adult job because this business would not work. And I have no real job skills so, trust me, this works even on babies who currently eat to fall asleep. 

Here's the thing: Your baby (over 12 pounds and 12 weeks) no longer NEEDS to wake up to eat. They do need the calories at night in the first 12ish weeks but once their tummy is bigger and once they have a mature circadian rhythm, the MOTN wake-ups for food are not a NEED, they are a learned habit that will stick around as long as you allow it to stick around. If you are ready to sleep again, then I will explain more in the online course how that works. But basically, they do not need to wake up and eat anymore and they ALL adjust to this if you are following my directions. If that freaks you out, you can keep ONE feed at night as long as you are following my directions for how to keep one night feed. 

I am my business. My business is me. So yes, I have views I am transparent about on various platforms. I will serve all families who need me. But some families like to know the social values of the business they are supporting. For those who feel better knowing before you decide to sign up, I am a liberal Democrat. Very much aligned with BLM and anything concerning the rights of the LGBTQ+ community as well. I could go on, but I think you get it.

If that means you don't want help from me, you are more than welcome to work with somebody whose values are either hidden or whose values are aligned with yours. But this is who I am.

And ultimately sleep training is sleep training no matter who you voted for. But I get it if this matters. 

🚫 If you identify as an Attachment Parenting family.

🚫 If your baby or child has any diagnosis that prevents behavior modification programs from being effective without additional support/medication/medical attention. 

🚫 If you are trying to find ways to sleep train and co-sleep at the same time.

🚫 If you know yourself, and you know you will want child-specific and situation-specific guidance. You will want my private coaching instead. See the main website, ParentingMadeJoyful.com